SHOCKING TRUTH ABOUT SEX, INFIDELITY AND THE INTERNET
As if marriage and strong committed relationships didn't have enough hazards to face, the Internet adds an ever increasing threat ""Cyber Love." The internet also known as information super-highway has opened up a whole new world for infidelity -- and people are flocking to it in massive numbers.
It's just to bloody easy to get away with! Please don't get me wrong, I think the internet is absolutely wonderful. It has advanced communication faster than any other development in history, and is accessible even in remote areas around the globe, and, personally, it has provided me with a new career path.
What are the benefits of the internet, first of all, the Internet has created jobs, businesses, wealth and power. It has provided a new way for people to communicate with their family and friends by chat or email. It provides a support group in any area imagined for people who perhaps have no other source of good support in their time of need.
Of course, it's a new trendy way to meet potential mates, and it's a new way for cheaters to cheat! For instance a person who is unhappily married or who has a problem being faithful can now easily be "single and looking" with a name like "Candie" or "Studman for You" with an age, physical attributes, career and economic status all created to fit the person they would like to be instead of the person they really are.
When they need a photo to go along with the new persona they can "lift" one that suits them and their new online "friend" who may request one. But be warned, the problem with this and maybe its a good thing, is that you may both life a photo from the same site, and or one of you may have seen that photo on another site relating to another person. If and when this happens I'm very happy because cheating is WRONG!!!!
Some people would agrue that its harmless fun. It's not SEX...Bullwinkie its sex. Perhaps it starts off as not touching each other, but later it very much becomes a relationship of hip-grinding sweating inducing SEX! Think about it, Candie and Studman are gettin together secretly and quietly bhind the backs of their partner. How is that not cheating? If you have to do anything in the dark and pretend that nothing is going on with your partner, you're cheating on some level, and maybe even serveral levels.
Now that I perhaps have your attention, allow me to address a few other points which may be of interest to you. What do you think makes online love abit dangerous? One of the answers is that when a Relationship is in trouble, its easy for one of the partners or both to begin seeking the affection and attention he or she needs almost immediately at the signs of trouble.
Research shows that most will turn to the internet first seeking affection, becuase its easier and can be done discretly without anyone mostly the other partner to know about first hand. Secondly, during this time you're both vulnerable because you're seeking comfort and or love in all the wrong places. You will find yourself falling for almost anything. This is particularly dangerous becuase if you'll not stand for something, you'll fall for anything.
Thirdly, you're in a highly emotional state in this moment so then your temper will be short with those around you as you feel you're being cheated in some way or another as it relates to the love and affection you feel you need and deserve. I suggest you be clear about something....If we all got what we deserve, the world would be half empty of most people.
Again I have nothing against the web as I 'm using it now to communicate this blog. It's a wonderful tool. But like anything, we tend to abuse what we have and after miss and need it when its gone. The Web makes it very easy to cheat as too many of you perhaps already know very well, either becuase you're doing it or becuase you'e been a victim of your partners cheating. If you think your partner might be a Cyber Cheat, you should get to know well some of the signs whih might be giving you the truth of what's going on in your relationship.
One sign for sure is your partner always working on the Internet while at home with you and conveying that he/she is working. It should straight away make you wonder what that partner is doing at work. There is an average of at least ten hours put into one's job. Why would your partner need to come home and spend another four or five hours on the Internet?
Another sign which is also known in any kind of infidelity, and that is Emotional intimacy decreasing or is virtually gone. Making excuses about the the phone and or internet bill which is very high as oppose to normal. And yet another would be does your partner's mood change after to get offline?
I could literally pass on to you hundreds of signs. But I think the best one is to keep your eyes open and pay attention to what's going on around you. That does not mean become super hyper sentitive and unreasonable. By all means if you think you can have a talk with your partner. It's much better to get to the bottom of it all and know first hand what you're you're dealing with.
Wanna know more ? Need to know more. Check out my next Blog in a few days.
All the Best for now.
Rone de Beauvoir
Check out my New Book on Amazon.com www.amazon.com
Book title : It's Only Dinner "Dining for Love Romance & Relationships
www.squidoo.com/ItsOnlyDinner/
It's just to bloody easy to get away with! Please don't get me wrong, I think the internet is absolutely wonderful. It has advanced communication faster than any other development in history, and is accessible even in remote areas around the globe, and, personally, it has provided me with a new career path.
What are the benefits of the internet, first of all, the Internet has created jobs, businesses, wealth and power. It has provided a new way for people to communicate with their family and friends by chat or email. It provides a support group in any area imagined for people who perhaps have no other source of good support in their time of need.
Of course, it's a new trendy way to meet potential mates, and it's a new way for cheaters to cheat! For instance a person who is unhappily married or who has a problem being faithful can now easily be "single and looking" with a name like "Candie" or "Studman for You" with an age, physical attributes, career and economic status all created to fit the person they would like to be instead of the person they really are.
When they need a photo to go along with the new persona they can "lift" one that suits them and their new online "friend" who may request one. But be warned, the problem with this and maybe its a good thing, is that you may both life a photo from the same site, and or one of you may have seen that photo on another site relating to another person. If and when this happens I'm very happy because cheating is WRONG!!!!
Some people would agrue that its harmless fun. It's not SEX...Bullwinkie its sex. Perhaps it starts off as not touching each other, but later it very much becomes a relationship of hip-grinding sweating inducing SEX! Think about it, Candie and Studman are gettin together secretly and quietly bhind the backs of their partner. How is that not cheating? If you have to do anything in the dark and pretend that nothing is going on with your partner, you're cheating on some level, and maybe even serveral levels.
Now that I perhaps have your attention, allow me to address a few other points which may be of interest to you. What do you think makes online love abit dangerous? One of the answers is that when a Relationship is in trouble, its easy for one of the partners or both to begin seeking the affection and attention he or she needs almost immediately at the signs of trouble.
Research shows that most will turn to the internet first seeking affection, becuase its easier and can be done discretly without anyone mostly the other partner to know about first hand. Secondly, during this time you're both vulnerable because you're seeking comfort and or love in all the wrong places. You will find yourself falling for almost anything. This is particularly dangerous becuase if you'll not stand for something, you'll fall for anything.
Thirdly, you're in a highly emotional state in this moment so then your temper will be short with those around you as you feel you're being cheated in some way or another as it relates to the love and affection you feel you need and deserve. I suggest you be clear about something....If we all got what we deserve, the world would be half empty of most people.
Again I have nothing against the web as I 'm using it now to communicate this blog. It's a wonderful tool. But like anything, we tend to abuse what we have and after miss and need it when its gone. The Web makes it very easy to cheat as too many of you perhaps already know very well, either becuase you're doing it or becuase you'e been a victim of your partners cheating. If you think your partner might be a Cyber Cheat, you should get to know well some of the signs whih might be giving you the truth of what's going on in your relationship.
One sign for sure is your partner always working on the Internet while at home with you and conveying that he/she is working. It should straight away make you wonder what that partner is doing at work. There is an average of at least ten hours put into one's job. Why would your partner need to come home and spend another four or five hours on the Internet?
Another sign which is also known in any kind of infidelity, and that is Emotional intimacy decreasing or is virtually gone. Making excuses about the the phone and or internet bill which is very high as oppose to normal. And yet another would be does your partner's mood change after to get offline?
I could literally pass on to you hundreds of signs. But I think the best one is to keep your eyes open and pay attention to what's going on around you. That does not mean become super hyper sentitive and unreasonable. By all means if you think you can have a talk with your partner. It's much better to get to the bottom of it all and know first hand what you're you're dealing with.
Wanna know more ? Need to know more. Check out my next Blog in a few days.
All the Best for now.
Rone de Beauvoir
Check out my New Book on Amazon.com www.amazon.com
Book title : It's Only Dinner "Dining for Love Romance & Relationships
www.squidoo.com/ItsOnlyDinner/
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